Well, lets say MOST women. I am around them way too much and here is my take on it. Most will have sex with a guy for one of three "M" reasons:

1) Money-No explanation needed.
2) Muscle-As in good looking guys.
3) Music-Musicians, actors or the type.

If you are not in one of those three categories, good luck. Most girls usually wake up in their late 20s/early 30s and realize there are more to relationships than superficial things. However, usually its too little too late. No one wants a Lexus with 250k miles on it. Thoughts?

Originally Posted by Mr. E

Thoughts?

Yeah, most guys usually only have 1 reason to go after a girl: looks.
And a lot of guys never wake up at all, so I don't think we're any better.

As for me, if it's a well maintained Lexus and I really like it, the miles don't mean a thing to me.

Originally Posted by Mr. E

Well, lets say MOST women. I am around them way too much and here is my take on it. Most will have sex with a guy for one of three "M" reasons:

1) Money-No explanation needed.
2) Muscle-As in good looking guys.
3) Music-Musicians, actors or the type.

If you are not in one of those three categories, good luck. Most girls usually wake up in their late 20s/early 30s and realize there are more to relationships than superficial things. However, usually its too little too late. No one wants a Lexus with 250k miles on it. Thoughts?

Wow! I believe that Mr. E has figured out the secret to women! Also ive never thought of comparing girls to Cars before, cool stuff! =)

Originally Posted by Mr. E

No one wants a Lexus with 250k miles on it. Thoughts?

*sigh* Yet another typical-male opinion that nobody wants a woman who has experience. What is this obsession with wanting a virginal girlfriend?

Newsflash, people: You're NOT going to hook up with an 18-year-old supermodel. Chances are that ESPECIALLY if you're a guy in your mid- to late 20s, you're going to end up with somebody close to your own age.

I prefer my women to be at least 25, and I'm more attracted to the "girl next door" than the "model" type.

This is so wrong.

I totally agree, with Gina. I have had one serious boyfriend before who was broke as a joke and the guys that I am attracted to I would say most girls wouldnt look at twice. I also find big roided out freaks to be very unattractive I like a little tone, but I don't mind some size either.

But I guess everyone has their opinions of what people want, usually shaped by something that has happened in their life

Originally Posted by Mr. E

Well, lets say MOST women. I am around them way too much and here is my take on it. Most will have sex with a guy for one of three "M" reasons:

1) Money-No explanation needed.
2) Muscle-As in good looking guys.
3) Music-Musicians, actors or the type.

If you are not in one of those three categories, good luck.

1) Money-No explanation needed.
2) Muscle-As in good looking guys.
3) Music-Musicians, actors or the type.

Man this is so depressing...

Originally Posted by BrianaLeeXO

I totally agree, with Gina. I have had one serious boyfriend before who was broke as a joke and the guys that I am attracted to I would say most girls wouldnt look at twice. I also find big roided out freaks to be very unattractive I like a little tone, but I don't mind some size either.
But I guess everyone has their opinions usually shaped by something that has happened in their life

Now I feel better, thanks Briana!

I think he has some legitimate points, he also left out cars, but I guess that goes with the money sort of.



and women can deny it, but give them a fat ugly broke guy with no musical talent whatsoever and see if they nail him

Originally Posted by Spinnr1

and women can deny it, but give them a fat ugly broke guy with no musical talent whatsoever and see if they nail him

I'm not that fat...

Let me get this right....

Girls want someone that can take care of them or is not a jobless bum.... someone that is attractive or has a decent body, or someone that has ambition?


Last time I checked, the average guy doesn't go for ugly unfit girls that are jobless and have no ambition do they?

Originally Posted by Spinnr1

women can deny it, but give them a fat ugly broke guy with no musical talent whatsoever and see if they nail him

So you're saying you'd have sex with an "fat ugly broke" girl?

Originally Posted by James

So you're saying you'd have sex with an "fat ugly broke" girl?

I dunno does she play an instrument?

hahahahahahhahahahahaha

+1

Originally Posted by Spinnr1

I dunno does she play an instrument?

Skin flute expert?

Originally Posted by golden

Skin flute expert?

Of course I'd give her a shot at demonstrating her talent in a dark room

Some good responses. I was talking about SEX, not serious relationships. A girl looking to hook up with a guy for casual sex will indeed look for one, if not all three of the things I listed. What girls out there are hooking up with unattractive, broke guys? Even if you want to include relationships. What girls are getting into relationships with unattractive, broke guys? It just doesnt happen.

Good points sir!

Don't women just looking for sex just skip the small talk, go home, and pull out the toys?

Originally Posted by Gina

This is so wrong.

Is it? So when you are looking for someone to hook up with, he doesnt have to be hot, have money or be someone in a band or an actor? I find that very difficult to believe. The first thing a girl looks for in a guy they want to hook up with is what he looks like, if hes hot. Then from there, its money. If hes not great looking but is going to spend alot of money on her, has an awesome car, takes her back to some mansion...hes probably getting laid. Only other way is some guy in a band or a semi-well known actor or the like that a girl will want to fuck just for his status.

One of my friends just proved my theory again last weekend. She was visiting from out of town and had met a guy over here at a new years party and she thought he was hot. He wanted to come see her and took a train. We picked him up from the train station, dude didnt even have a car, brought $40 with him. The 3 of us went bowling. He bought her 1 drink and didnt want to buy any food since it was to expensive, but bought them Taco Bell (no seriously) when we left. Got home and ate, watched a movie, went to our separate rooms and they were fucking within 10 minutes. Why would a girl fuck some guy with no car who didnt spend any money on her that night and who has no job? Oh, because hes a model with a great body. So that would go under my "Muscle" category. A guy who was hot was her only requirement for jumping in bed with a guy she hardly knows.

So Gina, what exactly DO you look for in a guy you want to hook up with?

I'd hit it

This topic is very one sided, you make it look like women are terrible because they want someone that has something to offer when last time I checked, guys are much, much worse, aren't we?

Do I blame a girl because she won't have sex with some dude with no ambition, no money or no looks/body? Hell no. Would you go nail some ugly fat chick? I'm thinking if given the choice between that or a hot girl with a killer body... ummm... let me see... decisions decisions....

Take most guys into account though...

Most guys will fuck anything. Check out last call next time you're at the bar, you'll see a lot of guys with very, very unattractive girls. We're not picky.

Sure, we all want the hot girl but how many guys manage to muster up the courage to talk to the hot girl, let alone close the deal? What's funny is that hot girls are much, much easier to date than the average girls. Weird how that works. Most guys talk themselves out of the game long before they go talk to the girl. That or they talk to the girl, they can't close the deal because the girl just isn't into them... so then that makes the girl a bitch, or a slut, or something equally as manly so they can feel better about their masculinity. Kind of sad.

What would the 3 item list be for the average guy to have sex with a woman?

1. Pulse
2. Pulse
3. Pulse

Let's face it, most of us guys have done girls we're not proud of, just as I am damn sure most women have a list of guys they'd like to strike from the records as well.

We all want the best we can get, just women can actually get it usually. They have the vajayjay.. they make the rules. That is, unless they're trolls. If they're hot, yeah, they make the rules and we hope we get picked.

well, there is no question that attraction plays a HUGE part in a hook up. I can't think of one time that I hooked up with a girl for a night because she was an awesome girl to talk to. Rather, if I am looking to fuck a girl, just for a night, i look for one of 3 things.

1) The hot girl that hangs out with uglier girls, this girl generally has the lowest amount of self esteem.
2) The girl who may have a hot body but a butterface, again, low self esteem, and she will sleep with anyone to make her self feel good
3) The drunkest one in the bar, but who can maintain a certain amount of attraction. Drunk girls are easy...

Now, It must be said that while I will fuck these girls. I will not enter a relationship with them. Too much baggage.

"What's funny is that hot girls are much, much easier to date than the average girls."